My friend is incredibly thin and refuses to eat. She has an account on here so I know she'll see this. Can you please explain the importance of eating every day and not every 3?

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Danae Hitch Profile
Danae Hitch answered

I'm going to take a guess and say this person might be a teenaged girl. It doesn't really matter except that no one should voluntarily not eating as a means to "diet".

Your body goes into starvation mode. It's not a healthy way to "diet". It's not teaching yourself how to handle stress in a positive way as your body and mind work together. When you starve the body, you starve your mind.

Your friend needs to learn how to eat in a healthy manner so s/he gets the proper nutrients to keep body, soul and mind functioning properly.

However, there are people out there that still maintain that going without food is ok - their body is used to not eating - their stress levels are fine - they are sleeping ok.

All these excuses would work short-term. I feel for someone that has made the decision to damage their body in this manner. Until they see that this is not the way to "diet", they won't stop, unfortunately. Hope this helps.

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Roy Lovett
Roy Lovett commented
She's not really doing it for a diet, I'm sure :/ She's just depressed, stubborn, and refusing to eat. It's really bothering me. Thank you, very much tho :)
Danae Hitch
Danae Hitch commented
That's a tough one. You combine depression and stubbornness and you've got a mess on your hands.

This situation will implode on her. Eventually her body will collapse or rebel and medical invention by her parents may be forthcoming.

Until she admits that there is a problem, just stand by and be her friend. You cannot force her to address this in a mature manner. She has to decide that for herself. Good luck.
Roy Lovett
Roy Lovett commented
She's gotten really mad at me before, she's actually mad that at me because I posted this. I did it to show her it's not good, which I admit, was uncalled for... Thank you for your help! :)
Victor Reine Profile
Victor Reine answered

Don't look like this. This is Jenette Mccurdy, she doesn't look too healthy, now does she?

She is incredibly thin! And you're like that! I don't like it >.<


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Victor Reine
Victor Reine commented
It's a shame though.. Most celebrities are fake. I feel for girls who model themselves after celebrities like that, it gives them a false example of good "self image" :/ and I get what you mean, I don't see why someone would be proud of that tho.
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crow robot answered

You are unhealthy. Prone to get sick and die

Jordan Marshall Profile
Jordan Marshall answered

Is she going to be okay? You won't let her get hurt, right? :/

I know who you're talking about, Roy. If she refuses to eat, she'll lose more weight. She's a little on the unhealthy side right now, so she can't lose more weight.! She'll die! And at a young age too!!

In a book, the main character was tied to a bed by his psychopath of a boyfriend; he wouldn't let him get up and bathe, use the bathroom on his own, etc... He was forced into sexual acts.. (none of this is relevant because it's not happening to her, and I'm sorry lol) Well, he was depressed and refused to eat. After so long of doing that, he had to be taken to the hospital. He almost DIED from malnutrition!.

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