I love this girl but I haven't talked to her for 2 years I love her I had a dream and I cant stop thinking about her I have her number on my new phone I am 15 and she is 13 she is my neighbor we don't talk much, we used to everyday should I txt her?


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Danae Hitch Profile
Danae Hitch answered

I'm not trying to be harsh here, but I don't believe you're in love with this girl. You have a crush on her. If you had a friendship before, it's ok to try and be friends again.

Text her and see what she's doing for the summer. Get to know her again, but keep things platonic. She's 13 years old - there should be zero sexual contact between you two. These days it would be simpler that if you're looking for a girlfriend that she be your age, not two years younger, especially when the girl is 13 years old.

Arthur Wright Profile
Arthur Wright , Florida Paralegal with a BS degree in Social-Psychology, answered

At 15 its called infatuation  and isn't true love as you have a lot to learn about love before you truly experience . At your age, life changes like every minute so while today this young Lady may be your fancy, tomorrow youll meet someone else and this young lady becomes History for now.  Don't be in a hurry to get your heart broken and you will many times in the next 10 years or so before you find the right one so for now just be friends and let Nature run its course and if its meant to be something will happen.  Just enjoy your life for now and don't be in a hurry to ruin it.  Text her but as a good friend which is where all relationships begin, as good friends first.  Good luck

Barb Cala Profile
Barb Cala answered

You're both children and this is a crush, I'm sure.  You don't love someone you barely know.  I have a feeling that her parents wouldn't be thrilled with someone even 15 being interested in her .. So best idea is to let this go.

Michael Poland Profile
Michael Poland answered

Right now your just browsing thru time.

Choose the things that will mean the most,

and last the longest. So much time a head.

The person you are tomarrow will remember

the person you were today.

Tom  Jackson Profile
Tom Jackson answered

Lot's of heavy thinking in these answers.

I'll opt for a simple approach.

Sure, text her. Ask her how things are doing.  See if she responds.

But if she was 11 when you first loved her, she may have absolutely no interest in revisiting that relationship.

And if you wind up talking again, you may find yourself feeling the same way.

Sharron Prestcott Profile

You haven't talked to her since she was 11 years old, a child, and now you've had a dream about her that you can't get out of your head. In the two years since you've talked to her she could have changed a lot.

It's common to have romantic dreams about other people even as adults, sometimes it's someone we know and never thought about romantically, it could even be a movie star but it happens to most of us.

I'd give her another year or so and when you're both a bit older then contact her, she's much too young to be involved with a boy and a 15 year old boy has things on his mind that 13 year old girls should not be exposed to.

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