I am so sad. My life is being ruined. I have no friends and those I had were my bad choice, as they are so mean. Now I'm getting depressed day by day. I feel I've messed up everything! People call me what I am not! Any help for me?


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Awesome Autumn answered

Yes, okay so you made a bad choice by hanging out with the wrong people. That's okay everyone does it. But good job! Most of the time when people are with the wrong crowd they are too scared to stop being friends with them and they end up doing what the other people were. IF people are making fun of you, ignore them get an adult. If you want friends go to school tomorrow and look for them, be nice kind, those are the qualities good friends have show all the people that what they say about you isn't true! And they're are awesome people on this website! Look for friends on here! They are great!

Good Luck!

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Anonymous commented
You have something he doesn't... Plans, determination, absolute integrity... Some men can't handle society so they result to a fantasy world. You're beautiful, I don't have to have a picture because I can feel it and tell by how you set yourself. You have more than plenty of life and love onward for!!! -Sincerely:
Just another woman moving forward :) 
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Another friend added....if you want :D
Nice Girl
Nice Girl commented
Thank you so much Taylor! That's very sweet of you! :)
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Ray Dart answered

Hey Nice Girl. Life is good. The sun shines, the holidays are coming and you have years of nice stuff (and there will be a few days of nasty stuff) to go. That's life, and you have a lot of it left. Enjoy (and smile and be happy).

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Rooster Cogburn commented
Took care of the spammer. They slip on and just put crap all over the place. We're trying.
Nice Girl
Nice Girl commented
Thanks Ray, you're right, I've now tried to be happy without a friend! Because there are still people in the world who didn't have a friend all their life and are so happy! Thanks!
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Rooster Cogburn , Rooster Cogburn, answered

Lots of help for you young one. Just one of the many trials of life to go through. You're so young with so much to see and do and learn. Meet some nice people.  They are out there! It's almost Christmas and it's time to be happy. Think positively about life in general. You're a nice kid, you'll be fine. Just a phase you're going through is all. Soon, the sun will shine again!

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Nobody is perfect. We have all been down that road before, even me. I messed up a friendship once and it took me some time to get over it but with the help of youth group I was able to move right along and I feel pretty darn good. It doesn't bother me like it used to. We have all done things we aren't proud of but we can always do the best we can to fix them. It is never too late and if some things don't work out it just wasn't meant to be but we shouldn't let that take over us. Things just take time.

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Sara Lewis answered

Sorry to hear that you are having a hard time, sounds as though things are tough at the moment. My only advice is to stick it out, because it will get better!

Try to take a step back and look at what is happening in your life at the moment. There will be some things that are outside of your control, that you can't change- try not to worry about them. Those are not the things you should focus on. Concentrate on things you can change, and different choices you can make.

If your friends are being mean, cut them off. Don't waste your time with people who make you feel unhappy. Or at the very least try and talk to them. Tell them how they are making you feel and if they are worth keeping as friends, I guarantee they will stop that behaviour straight away. And if they don't, then they aren't worth your time.

We all go through rough patches, don't be too hard on yourself and try to stay positive! Try watching some YouTube clips like this, you might find them really helpful:

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Nice Girl
Nice Girl commented
Thanks for the video and this isn't the first time we broke friendship. It had been about two times before too and I'e forgiven all the time and they do the same thing again and again! Last time I told myself that this is the last time I'm forgiving them but they've done it again and I really don't wanna forgive this time! It's not worth forgiving them! They really don't mean it!

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