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I feel like a no one. Honestly, everyone beats me at everything, video games which I thought I was good at, even popularity on Instagram. I've got 10 followers while everyone else has got way more. I don't know what to do to be better?

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Lard Ass Profile
Lard Ass answered

Just be yourself! You don't need to be better than others, or even the same as others...you just need to be you! You are an individual, different from anyone else, and therefore bring different qualities to the table that are unique to you. Be who you are!

Corey The Goofyhawk Profile

I don't know you but I do know what you are best at. You are best at being you. No-one else can be as great as you are at being you. Video games, sports, writing, or painting. All talent fades with time, but not even time can erode who you are. Take who you are and own it! I'd respect you for that. Good luck my friend!

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DDX Project answered

None of the things you mentioned are important at all. Video games are entertainment. Unless you're playing professionally for money, being good or bad isn't as important as actually having fun.  The whole point of playing video games is to have FUN.

What you need are real concrete goals and a dream. What's 100,000 instagram followers going to do for you 10 years from now? Absolutely nothing.  Therefore I suggest you spend your time working on yourself instead.

My list of suggestions:

  1. Get fit. Start an exercise routine. Bodyweight Fitness, Stronglifts 5x5, or Couch to 5k.
  2. Learn programming. Beginner Java
  3. Read a book. Read for an hour a day. For you I suggest starting with This Book.
  4. Find a hobby, something you're passionate about. People with hobbies or have something they're extremely passionate about are interesting. People who don't are dull.
  5. Learn a martial art. I suggest Jiu Jitsu.

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Johnny Bravo answered

I use to relate to the part of you saying people beat me at video games i thought I was good at I am now 18 and can beat Counter Strike GO on expert, completed rainbow road from Mario Kart 1st place without falling off once, beated multiple royal rumble matches on WWE on the Original Xbox in a row being the 1st man to enter the ring every time, completed the 1st level of pac man with my eyes closed, maxed out the lives on new super mario brothers wii, got my 1st down on kino der toten (black ops 1 zombies) at round 28 solo and a bunch of other stuff

Barb Cala Profile
Barb Cala answered

I have a feeling you're very young, and obviously very insecure.  Hopefully soon you'll realize not to compare yourself to others or you're going to live a very frustrating and unhappy life.  Just be the best person YOU can be .. That's all any of us can do.  As you get older, you'll also realize that the things you mention are very unimportant in the whole scheme of life.  Concentrate on finding your own personal happiness independent of competition with others.

HelpStop AnimalAbuse Profile

The greatest fear in the world is of the opinions of others & the moment you are unafraid of the crowd you are no longer a sheep , you are a lion. A great roar arises in your heart ❣-The roar of freedom.

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