No, you can't.
When I got Herpes, it was from someone who pretended to be my friend for three years. She knew she had it and she really didn't give a crap about if I got it or not. She flat out lied to me and told me she had had a clean std test. When I turned up with it a week later, she told me to go to the doctor and ask them for Valtrex and herpes treatment. "You will be fine." She told me. Needless to say, I didn't have a lot of faith in humanity or men left after that happened to me. When I found this www.PeopleLivingWithHerpes.com I was too scared to date or to seek out a relationship. I had told several people about my new found curse and had mixed reactions. This site gave me the confidence and understanding I needed to be happy.