At my urging my husband had a colonoscopy. In 2003 Cancer. I worked in medical field and knew who to choose for his surgery and follow up treatment. After surgery lab confirmed stage 4. It was found in 9 of 13 lymph nodessthat were obtained after bowel resection. We discussed in depth options for treatment and he had my support no matter what he chose. He opted for chemo with the proviso that he could stop at any time if he so chose. He was given a "cocktail" of 4 or 5 drugs. Side effects were not great but he tolerated and I made sure he was eating high calorie loaded with natural sugars and carbs to facilitate the uptake of chemo drugs. Six months of chemo. A lot of positive re-enforcement. Absolutely NO negativity from anyone. He was of course despondent at times his life as he knew it was over. He was a pilot who lived and breathed flying over 20 years inn the military and 15 years civilian flying and he was now permanently grounded. We,family and friends ,surrounded him with positive attitudes,objectives. And a whole lot of humor. Today , eight years later , he remains in REMISSION. We do not use the term "cured" . . We are well aware that since the cancer had entered the lymph system even one cell ( or its offspring) can be lurking anywhere in the body waiting for an oportune time to resurface. It may not happen but one never knows. So here we are. He has had the good fortune to see 3 grandchildren come into this world and watch them grow. He has been here to be supportive of our son who was diagnosed with an unrelated type cancer who had surgery and radiation therapy and is now 4 years in remission. Boils down to indiviual choice, positive attitude and knowing you can have a direct input to your treatment ( people tend to forget that the doctor is following a general protocol that does not take into consideration the indiviual patient. Work together as a team or find another doctor ). Remember you can take a break during treatments to recoup physicaly , mentally, spiritually. You have to be prepared to fight.
Eight years and counting for husband, 4 years and counting for son. We continue to Live, Love and Laugh. And hope your days will be filled with the same whichever you decide.
Eight years and counting for husband, 4 years and counting for son. We continue to Live, Love and Laugh. And hope your days will be filled with the same whichever you decide.